Saturday, December 6

Disrespect


Noun 1. disrespect - an expression of lack of respect
Verb 1. disrespect - show a lack of respect for

What do you do if you feel like you are being disrespected? Do you get mad and keep it to yourself? Or do you stand your ground and let the person/people know how you are feeling?

I have choose to “learn from the situation!” I have noticed that this is going to happen and I can either put the energy into it or I can place the energy somewhere more productive! I know that I’m going to get disrespect from all over, this is the world that we live in, but I also know that I have the power to let it effect me in a positive or negative way.

When I am disrespected by someone I will remind myself that if I become offended or feel disrespected then it is only my ego that is offended/feeling disrespected.

Depending on the type of situation, this can be easy or difficult so I have begun to develop an awareness and catch myself if I become offended and bring myself back from that negative place. I will see it as a matter of practice as it is a skill that needs developement.

I will keep my heart open and smile (”the kill them with kindness”) therefore changing the energetic dynamic within myself and hopefully into the situation. I am the one who holds the power and I can turn it round into a positive and productive situation.

However, I am still human and sometimes I succumb to the common failures, but through developing an awareness off my reaction to such energy it is becoming less of a personal issue and more of an opportunity to practice, develop, grow and enrich both myself and my “offenders!”

So if you feel you have to disrespect me and my loved ones, do what you feel is necessary just know that I am above it all. . . Maybe one day, when you are above it all, you can meet me in the clouds!Read More!

2 comments:

Kaneischa said...

Hello! I found your link on One Pics page...I love this last post.

A motto I live by is, "I am only offended if I CHOOSE to become offended..."

One thing to remember when we feel offended is that we are likely taking someones lack of respect very personally, when it really has nothing at all to do with us and everything to do with them! This always helps me remember to find out what it is about themselves they are not liking and seeking out ways to help them think better of themselves.

~Kaneischa

UBRINGMEJOI said...

thanks for stopping by and for the advice!